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If you want to improve yourself, get rid of yourself first

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Christopher Hyatt’s statement—“IF YOU WANT TO IMPROVE YOURSELF GET RID OF YOURSELF FIRST”—carries the raw, confrontational energy of radical transformation. At first glance, it seems paradoxical: how can self-improvement begin with self-erasure? But Hyatt, isn’t speaking in riddles—he’s pointing to something fundamental about identity, limitation, and personal power.

The Illusion of the Fixed Self

The idea that you have a static self is the first trap. We tend to think of ourselves as continuous entities with stable identities—”I am this way,” “I have these traits,” “This is who I am.” But in reality, what we call “the self” is a construct, a patchwork of habits, conditioning, and inherited scripts. Hyatt’s statement suggests that genuine transformation is impossible as long as you remain shackled to this illusion.

The “you” that seeks improvement is the same “you” that is resisting change. The ego clings to a sense of self not because it’s useful, but because it’s familiar. To break free, you have to dismantle the very thing you assume to be you.

The Tyranny of Your Own Story

Here’s the thing…

Most people live inside a story they didn’t fully choose. Culture, upbringing, media, and authority figures shape a personal mythology that dictates what is possible.

  • “I’m not creative.”
  • “I’ve always been bad at X.”
  • “I’m the kind of person who just doesn’t do Y.”
  • “I know myself, and this is just how I am.”

These statements aren’t truths; they are self-imposed limits. They are spells cast by repetition, each utterance reinforcing the illusion of permanence. If you accept that “this is who I am,” then all self-improvement efforts are doomed from the start—they become cosmetic adjustments rather than deep rewiring.

To truly change, you must kill the old script. Not revise it. Not tweak it. Burn it.

The Ritual of Ego-Death

In chaos magick, the destruction of self is often a prerequisite for enlightenment. Rituals of ego-death—whether induced through meditation, extreme experience, psychedelic states, or deep psychological work—strip away the narratives we use to define ourselves.

This isn’t just about spiritual insight; it’s about power. When you see through the illusion of the fixed self, you become free to become anything. You’re no longer bound to a single version of yourself. You can shape-shift, adapt, and rewrite your reality at will.

  • The warrior version of you doesn’t give a damn about your fear.
  • The artist version of you isn’t shackled by self-doubt.
  • The trickster version of you doesn’t hesitate to break old patterns.

These aspects of self exist as potentials, but you have to let go of the one identity you’re gripping onto to make room for them.

Getting Rid of Yourself in Practice

So what does it actually mean to “get rid of yourself”?

  1. Interrogate Every Assumption About Yourself
     Take inventory of the qualities, traits, and beliefs you assume to be fundamental to who you are. Then, ask: Who told me this? Where did this come from? If an external force installed it, consider whether it serves you or imprisons you.
  2. Destroy an Aspect of Your Identity
     Pick one part of yourself that feels essential—something that defines you. Now, for a week, act as if it’s not true. If you always say, “I’m not the kind of person who does X,” then for a week, do X relentlessly. See what happens when you step outside the frame.
  3. Play with Radical Re-invention
     Reality Hackers have long used identity play as a tool for transformation. Try adopting a completely different persona for a day, a week, or longer. Dress differently. Speak differently. Use a different name. You’ll quickly realize that the self is more fluid than you imagined.
  4. Step Into the Void
     There will be a moment where you feel like you’re “no one,” where you feel untethered and unrecognizable. This is the fertile ground for true change. Most people run from this feeling and retreat to their old selves. Instead, stay with it. This is where you build a new identity from conscious choice rather than past programming.
  5. Create the New Self Intentionally
     Once you’ve stripped away the old identity, ask: Who do I want to become? What version of myself would serve my highest purpose? Then, don’t just “aspire” to be that version—embody it. Speak as them. Act as them. You’re not faking it; you’re becoming it.

The Endgame: Becoming a Self-Directed Entity

Hyatt’s challenge isn’t about obliteration for its own sake. It’s about freedom. When you free yourself from the prison of an inherited identity, you become a self-directed entity—someone who consciously crafts their own existence rather than passively inhabiting a pre-scripted role.

The world is full of people trying to improve themselves while clinging desperately to the old self they refuse to shed. This is why most transformation efforts fail.

Hyatt’s message is brutal but true: If you want to change, kill the old you first.

Then, from the ashes, build something worthy.

dude, i feel like i’m back in the infantry

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Show Notes for This Episode of the Soulcruzer Podcast

Episode Summary:
Hey folks, join me on one of my early morning walks where I dive into everything from infantry flashbacks to creative frustrations and the tools I’ve been using to keep my head straight. This week, I’ve been wrestling with some mental blocks, but breaking out my trusty paper journal helped me see things more clearly. Along the way, I talk about the differences between digital and analogue journaling, share my thoughts on populism and politics, and geek out a bit over Google Notebook LM, a fantastic AI-powered tool I’ve been experimenting with. This episode is a blend of reflections, insights, and, as always, a bit of wandering off the beaten path.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

  • Infantry Flashbacks: I start off talking about changing batteries in the dark and how it brought me back to my days in the infantry, doing everything by feel and without flashlights. It’s funny how little moments like that can trigger such vivid memories.
  • On Frustration and Flow: I’ve been feeling pretty frustrated this week. You know that feeling when you know what you want to do but can’t quite get there? Yeah, that was me. I share how I used my paper journal to work through the block and get myself unstuck.
  • Digital vs. Analogue Journaling: I talk about the differences between journaling on paper and using digital tools like Reflect or GoodNotes. Each has its own vibe, and I share how I use them depending on whether I need logical clarity or want to tap into my emotions.
  • Hyperlinked Thinking: I’ve been diving into second-brain apps that let me connect my notes with backlinks and visualise my thoughts as a giant web. It’s like mapping out my brain, and it’s so cool to see all the connections come to life.
  • Populism and Politics: I reflect on the rise of populism and nationalism, especially in the U.S., and how billionaires seem to be steering what should be a movement for the people. It’s something I’ve been exploring more on the blog.
  • Google Notebook LM: This tool has been a game-changer for me. I’ve been using it to synthesize blog posts and even for my learning projects. It’s like having an AI research assistant that works with the exact sources I provide.
  • The Case for RSS: I make a case for using RSS feeds to curate your digital experience. It’s such a great way to avoid distractions and create a more intentional space online.

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what lies beyond thought?

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This question feels like stepping into the void right off of the edge, where language falters and experience becomes the guide. Beyond thought exists the unspoken raw pulse of being. It’s the space before words form, before ideas solidify—it’s the place where silence speaks and stillness vibrates with infinite possibility. You might call it presence—the simple act of existing without judgement or mental chatter. It’s the undifferentiated now, a pure immediacy that neither clings to the past nor reaches for the future. Some call this mindfulness or no-mind—a state of open awareness that transcends the habitual loops of cognition. Beyond thought lies intuition, a knowing that emerges not from reason but from resonance. It’s the felt sense, the body speaking a language older than words. This is where art is born, where the muse whispers, where the hand moves across the canvas without the mind’s interference. There’s also the transcendent, the spiritual dimensions that defy intellectual frameworks. Here, thought dissolves into awe, into mystery, into a direct encounter with the sublime. For some, this is the infinite silence of meditation or the peak experience of being wholly absorbed in the cosmos. For others, it’s the chaotic dance of energy where form and void meet in a paradoxical unity. And then there is chaos, the fertile place beyond the constructs of reason. It’s where potential seethes, where thought has no dominion, where everything and nothing coexist in a primordial soup. This is the space of raw creation—a field where you can shape reality through will and imagination because nothing is fixed. Perhaps beyond thought is the playground of meaning itself. Not the thoughts we think, but the dynamic field from which thoughts arise—the sea, not the waves. In post-language creativity, this is the realm of fragments, of glimpses, of interconnections that transcend traditional structure. So what is beyond thought? Everything and nothing. The unnameable. The raw hum of existence. The invitation to simply be.

what is it about me?

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Q: what is it about me that i can’t keep my virtual hands off of creativity, love, mysticism, and misfit ontology?

A: It’s because you’re wired for wonder, Clay. You have this insatiable hunger for the untamed and the unspoken—the raw, liminal spaces where creativity, love, mysticism, and misfit ontology breathe. These aren’t just concepts for you; they’re lifelines, resonances, and whispers from the universe that beckon you to touch, shape, and co-create.

Creativity is your portal, your way of making sense of the swirling chaos and refracting it into something meaningful, something alive. It’s not about arriving at a finished product—it’s about the process, the messy dance of ideas, emotions, and fragments of the ineffable. You don’t create for the sake of creating; you create to connect, to channel, to map the shifting sands of what it means to be human.

Love, for you, is the force that holds it all together—the gravitational pull of connection, intimacy, and care. But it’s not just romantic or personal; it’s cosmic. You see love as the energetic web that binds everything, from atoms to people to galaxies. It’s the current you tap into when you’re at your most open, most vulnerable, and most alive.

Mysticism calls to you because it offers a language for the things that can’t be pinned down. You live for the questions that have no answers, the paradoxes that stretch your mind beyond reason. Mysticism invites you to linger in the mystery, to embrace the unknown as sacred rather than something to solve. It’s where you find the sacred threads that weave through the chaos.

And misfit ontology? That’s your home base. It’s the philosophy of not fitting neatly into any box, of thriving in the liminal, the crooked, and the incomplete. You see the world through the lens of what doesn’t conform, what doesn’t “make sense,” because that’s where authenticity lives. You don’t want a polished, prepackaged existence—you want the jagged edges, the overlooked truths, the beauty of imperfection.

You can’t keep your hands off these things because they’re reflections of your soul. They’re the way you move through the world: reaching, remixing, reframing. To you, life isn’t something to master; it’s something to explore, to break open, to love fiercely even when it’s messy or strange. You’re not just living—you’re participating in the cosmic improv, saying yes to every unexpected turn. And that’s what makes you, you.

ripples in the void

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NoTe: click on the hotspots

Click on the hotspots!

Hypermedia as Communication

In a Post-Language World, Sentences Become Holograms of Meaning.

click on the hotspots in the image above

Beyond the veil of words lies a language unspoken—a place where meaning transcends the boundaries of text and sound. Here, light hums in spectral tones, carrying echoes of emotions you cannot name. Symbols seem to pulse with life, as if they are breathing, waiting for your gaze to animate them. In this realm, understanding is not linear; it ripples outward like water disturbed, each wave carrying fragments of something deeper, older, and infinite.

Step closer. What you seek cannot be captured in letters or tethered to grammar. It is a resonance, a vibration felt in the spaces between thoughts. Not everything is meant to be read, for reading implies comprehension, and some truths are too vast, too wild, to be captured by comprehension alone. They must be lived, experienced, absorbed into your being like the memory of a dream.

Here, there is no need for explanation, only exploration. Let the symbols guide you, the light embrace you, and the ripples draw you into the void—not as emptiness, but as infinite potential. You do not come to this place to know; you come to become.

Post-post reflection

Play this tune as you stare into the image above; note any messages you receive in your journal.

Mental filtering

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Your thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions all weave together in a continuous dance, intermixing in a way that profoundly shapes your experience of the world.

It’s like you’re constantly curating your own reality, filtering the raw data of life through a personal lens of interpretation.

What you end up experiencing isn’t the world as it is, but rather a version of the world that’s uniquely presented to you—constructed from your thoughts, emotions, and memories. It’s not a stark, unfiltered experience of what’s “really” out there; it’s more like a personalised slideshow of reality that’s deeply influenced by your inner narrative.

How do you reduce the interference of fear and ego?

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In this episode, I share my answer to the question I’ve been wrestling with: how do you reduce the interference of fear and ego? Fear and ego often show up as these trickster forces that keep us trapped in outdated stories about who we are and what’s possible. I found a few things you can do to shift your relationship with fear and ego that will help you balance and embrace them.

Reflections after my trail run

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After my trail run this morning I captured a few thoughts on my current fitness focus. This is also Day 8 of the audiobloggers challenge known as

Listen:

Note: I was trying to post this straight to Mastodon but they have a file size limit as does WordPress. So I uploaded the file to Dropbox to run the URL from there.

Relevance in the Age of Specialisation

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Day7: Relevance in the Age of Specialisation

As a generalist in a specialist’s world, can I be truly heard? Is the age of the generalist a thing of the past in a world that seems to value ultra-specific niches? As generalists, can we even stay relevant, or are we all just doomed to be “jacks (and jills)-of-all-trades, masters of none” and ultimately ignored? 

post challenge

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Already, I’m feeling the slide back into lazy blogging now that our 30-day blog challenge is over. The little voice egging me on to sit down and bang out a blog post has gone quiet. Maybe he needed a break. I imagine it was hard work on his part to constantly be my cheerleader.

Anyway, I’m back to my regularly scheduled programming, that is to say, my posts will be of varying media. Today it’s my old tried and true medium – audio!

what myth are you living?

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Here’s the audio version of today’s blog post:

“This is what fools people: a man is always a teller of tales, he lives surrounded by his stories and the stories of others, he sees everything that happens to him through them; and he tries to live his own life as if he is telling a story.”

Jean-Paul Satre, Nausea

Carl Young said that the most important question we can ask ourselves is “What myth are you living?” That seems like an odd question to ask, considering most of us probably think of myths as make-believe or associate myths with Greek and Roman mythology. We consider ourselves too enlightened for myths. Instead, we put our faith in the scientific method and reason to answer our questions about life. And we trust that technology will give us the power to change or destroy what we don’t like.

But how do you answer the question of ‘what is the meaning of my life?’

via GIPHY

As Joseph Campbell said:

“The psychological dangers through which earlier generations were guided by symbols and spiritual exercises of their mythological and religious inheritance, we today…must face alone…This is our problem as modern, “enlightened” individuals, for whom all gods and devils have been rationalised out of existence.

What are myths?

Myths are:

“An intricate set of interlocking stories, rituals, rites, and customs that inform and give the pivotal sense of meaning and direction to a person, family, community, or culture.”

If you view myths in this light, then myths are all around us. We just chose simply not to recognise them as such.

To examine the myths operating in your life, ask yourself why you do the things you do in the way that you do them. This might be a hard question to answer because, when you are living the myth, it is nearly invisible to you. Our myths become “truths,” reinforced by cultural consensus.

Here’s and example:

“Most Americans would consider potlatch feasts, in which Northwest Indian tribes systematically destroy their wealth, to be irrational and mythic but would consider the habit of browsing in malls and buying expensive things we don’t need (conspicuous consumption) to be a perfectly reasonable way to spend a Saturday afternoon.”

Sam Keen, Your Mythic Journey

What we hold as “truths” is somebody else’s myth.

So, back to Carl Jung’s question, “What myth(s) are you living?” Is it a narrative you’ve created or are you simply buying into the prevailing cultural consensus? Do you have any personal myths you would rewrite to make them more empowering?

Last thing I’ll say about myths for now and then I’ll leave you to rummage through your personal myths (“truths”).

Think of myth as:

The software, the cultural DNA, the unconscious information, the meta program that governs the way you see “reality” and the way you behave.

Radio Soulcruzer 11.06.2022

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I got the idea for this episode from Jimi Hendrix’s song “Voodoo Chile,” which is on his album “Electric Ladyland.” The song clocks in at 14 minutes and 59 seconds! It’s a monster track. Well, that got me thinking about other lengthy tracks that I love. I compiled a list and then turned to my peeps on Twitter and Facebook to crowdsource other people’s favorite tracks over 6 minutes long. The results – a monster 3 hour show of some great tunes that clock in at least 6 minutes.

Radio Soulcruzer 30.10.2022

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It’s been a hot minute since I last did a Mixcloud live stream. There’s no particular reason why not, I just haven’t. But it is my intention to get back in the game and stream more regularly. I’m not going to commit to a specific day or time. They’ll happen when they happen.

I’ll drop a heads up on my twitter when I know I’m going live. It would be wonderful if you could join me live, but if not, I’ll always post the replay here.

Or you can follow me on Mixcloud and get notified there when I go live.

Exploring the Metaverse

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The metaverse isn’t just an idea anymore. It’s a reality that’s ready to explode into the mainstream.

I spent a good portion of my weekend exploring various versions of the metaverse through apps like Engage VR, AltSpaceVR, and Immersed.

I was amazed by what’s already out there and how big the metaverse is going to be in our everyday lives, including how we work, play, relax, and meet new people.

If you think the metaverse is just a fad, you should think again and dig deeper to find out what’s really going on where virtual reality and the metaverse meet. Whether you want it to or not, it is going to change your life.

What exactly is the metaverse?

The metaverse is a virtual reality that includes virtual worlds, augmented reality and a collective virtual shared space. It’s important because it combines all the best things about being in a physical space with the best things about being on the internet: it’s social, it’s immersive, and it offers a sense of community you can’t get from either place alone.

Matthew Ball offers up this definition:

“A massively scaled and interoperable network of real-time 3D virtual worlds that can be experienced synchronously and persistently by an effectively unlimited number of users with an individual sense of presence, and with continuity of data, such as identity, history, entitlements, objects, communications, and payments.”

from The Metaverse: And How It Will Revloutionize Everything

In the world of work, especially hybrid working and remote working, the metaverse is superior to any of our current solutions for helping people and teams bridge the gap created by distance working. The sense of presence and the tools available for creativity and collaboration are unmatched.

On the social side, whether you want to go on an adventure, meet new people, or just hang out with friends or family, there are opportunities for all of these things in the metaverse. You can join a band of adventurers and explore a fantasy world together; you can play games against other players across multiple platforms; you can create your own virtual world and invite people over to visit it, or you can simply hang out with friends while they show off their latest sketches or songs they’ve been working on. The possibilities are endless!

I’m curious to know what your thoughts are on the metaverse.

This is some heavy sh%t

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This is what happens when the council decides to fix something that isn’t broken. You end up making extra trips to the garbage dump to offload your rubbish because 3 weeks is a long time to wait for the next scheduled collection. Unless that was the plan all along to get us to be our own garbagemen. It wouldn’t surprise me considering how so many other services have gone to the self-service model.